Ephesians Chapter Six, Verse Four – The Power of DNA

I returned a phone call last week, and the information that I received felt like a key opening up closed doors of emotions that had been locked up inside of me for years. As my ears received audio through the phone, I felt a burning sensation inside of my heart and it caused invisible hurt to seep out of my chest. The pain caused my eyes to water. The opposite party continued to talk, and I only heard parts of it because my mind had become NASCAR and my thoughts were racing like Darrell Wallace Jr. I made it to the end of the conversation without being disrespectful; and then, I started cussing like a sailor immediately after pressing the end button because I was out of control angry.

That phone call I received was from a relative who had a chat with my father pertaining to an incident between him and I at a loved one’s funeral. My DNA basically looked me in face and ignored me as if Maury had told him that he was not my father! I shared this with my family and they of course shared this information with him. His memory of the incident was frazzled and so was his many explanations.

My number was given to him and I pray that he does not call because the Bible says it best; Let the dead bury the dead!

I was told to be the bigger person and to behave like a true Christian; however, I do not recall God sending David back to Jesse or his mother: I do not recall God sending Ester to find her parents: I do not recall God sending Ishmael to run behind Abraham as an attempt for equal love, and I do not recall God allowing Jabez the time to search for his father every day and hold up his destiny.

David said that when our mothers and fathers forsake us, then the Lord will take us up and my version of this verse; is that, God literally adopts us.

The title of this post stems from the Bible in the Book of Ephesians, Chapter Six, Verse Four. And it Reads:

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Ginger’Thoughts – I know that Oprah and Iyanla Vanzant sounded great speaking of the Fatherless Children issues on the Life Class; however, I disagreed with many of the comments made. Being fatherless is not a handicap. Of course it is painful but you accept it and you move on! We are all born with a purpose and some of us were created to face mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional hurts because we will not hide it. Our pain was pre-destined to help others and we do it everyday! God sends us who we need every time and I would rather be unconditionally loved by him then partially loved by any man!

When fatherless children allow God to adopt them, they move from victims, to victors! David became a King, Ester became a Queen, Ishmael inherited his own nation, and Jabez, whose name literally means pain asked his Father:

1 Chronicles 4:10
10 Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, “Oh that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my border! May your hand be with me, and may you keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain!”

So if God could bless that child, and allow that child to ball out of control, and comfort that child, and protect that child, and heal that child who was born into a life of pain; then he can do the same for the rest of his children:)


Shoutout to Drew5000G! Your post are raw, un-cut, and real and this one is a definite MUST READ!


I Know u lookin down on me, i have no excuses

I bring this shit to me an i have no apology

I spend my doh so  its all on me, yo

i get down with the white an brown in the street like a fuckin clown i get high and then i come back down

For a short while i am on my own dreamin, driftin away from the misery that lives deep inside ov me.

I aint gone forever i know how i live aint clever i guess its just my ways but i come back it usually takes 3 days.

As i go thru the highs and lows my body takes blows like Pacquio, i guess u think you know me now

I do that full circle thing that is what i am trying to bring and when my fucked up body has almost recovered

I come…

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Meagan Good…A Pastor’s Wife?

meagan-good-and-devon2013 BET Awards - Backstage Winner's Room

We all know Meagan Good, and for those who are not familiar with this beautiful, talented, actress, I have provided a link from Yahoo Movies for you, if you would like to read a brief bio on her. It’s impressive! Like most of us were when we young and happy, we did a lot of not so classy things; however, we are not famous so our skeletons can safely remain trapped in our closets. Unfortunately, some of Good’s skeletons got out. Social Media, especially Jacky Jasper the King of obtaining celebrity dirt, whose website is Diaryofahollywoodstreetking.com by the way, has posted statements on their blogs pertaining to her being a former escort. Posts read that her clientele included rappers, athletes, dope-boys, and if the money was right, other women. In addition, some have alleged that she likes to party and sniff cocaine, and there are a couple of pictures posted of her on the internet looking “white boy” wasted that could most likely support that statement.

My first time of ever hearing about Devon Franklin was on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday show. He was bright, handsome, and confident answering questions and sharing knowledge that he had acquired and placed in his book Produced by Faith. As Oprah listened for “Aha Moments,” I observed him and listened to some of his accomplished works. Franklin was in the entertainment business and was once an assistant to Will Smith. One of his biggest accomplishments; howver, is being a 7th Day Adventist Pastor.

With that being said, I was surprised to hear that Meagan Good was dating and then marrying Pastor Devon Franklin.

After watching pictures of the BET Awards show, I was honestly shocked to see how this Pastor’s wife was dressed. I was even more boggled that the Pastor allowed his wife to be viewed by an audience of this magnitude in such a revealing manner. The Franklins are an attractive couple and the need to get attention in this fashion caused somewhat of a stir. Comments were made on Social Media questioning Meagan’s outfit of choice.

Bossip.com has an exclusive on Meagan’s respond to those comments:

@adriannacolbert That’s the thing Girl- is that I don’t feel convicted about this at all .,my spirit is saddened that our people only know one way to think and process things.. I’m not any less holy because the dress I wore -I may not be who people think I should be -but I’m morphing into exactly who God wants me to be.. My excuse is never “I’m going to do me” and I don’t feel that I need to make an excuse or defend or what I wore .. I know I have a responsibility -and I’m working daily to fulfill the full potential of all God has created me to be.. A dialogue was started about my character, integrity, my walk with God and my Husband -simply based on a dress that I wore.., Of course I’m going to have a reaction to people saying negative things… It’s just sad.. Makes me sad not regretful.. My heart and spirit is always open to whatever my Father would want to share with me… And my spirit tells me to be exactly who I authentically am -because that’s what’s going to reach who I was authentically designed to touch.. people like me who are often misunderstood and told their cut of God’s promise -because they don’t look the role …when God doesn’t care about us “looking the role”..he is always cared about bringing us in -and us being whatever we need to be to bring Those left out in .. And it just makes me sad that us as Christians can’t see beyond our initial reaction and don’t seek God before the attack other brothers and sisters …and never think for one moment that: God knows what he’s doing and he uses everything for his glory .. and he has a plan for every specific situation.. I had intentions on anything .. Merely picked a dress I saw and loved … God knows my heart and that I didn’t do anything wrong .. And he will use even people’s thoughts to bring him glory – See more at: http://bossip.com/797822/sit-down-haters-meagan-good-claps-back-at-angry-black-church-folks-mad-at-her-bet-awards-boob-baring-blue-dress/2/#sthash.ARmO4S1F.dpuf

Ginger’s Thoughts Meagan, your actions may have came from a spirit, but it certainly was not the Holy Spirit. Your Husband should teach you that women of God represent true beauty and confidence. They thoroughly understand that they were meticulously made by God and so the need to act “thirsty” for anything is removed. Personally, that dress proved to me that you are not ready to let go of your past lifestyle, and at the end of the day, your husband, Pastor or not, is only a man….

Krissi Biasiello, the Paula Deen of Master Chef

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Krissi “I am loud, obnoxious, and ignorant” Biasiello true colors have finally be revealed. This re-mix of Paula Deen first appeared on Master Chef as a heart warming single mother trying to make a better life for her and her son. All single mother’s could relate to her, and being that I am one; I cheered for her.

I watched this loud, obnoxious, and ignorant cunt on a MasterChef episode and she saved a white contestant who she acted like she couldn’t stand, and sent home a Puerto Rican father. As that father struggled in the kitchen, she laughed at his demise and now that I think of it, her laugh was pretty similar to Paula. I am not surprised to find this article about her below:

The Philadelphia Daily News says it has uncovered racist tweets by current “MasterChef” contestant Krissi Biasiello. The 34-year-old Philadelphia paralegal, who like Deen specializes in delicious but fatty comfort foods, is accused of using the N-word in one tweet and making a racist rape joke in another.

Fox declined to comment, and Biasiello did not immediately respond to a request for comment.

The Daily News said that in one tweet, from May 21, 2012, Biasiello called the NBA “N—ers Bouncing Around.” In another, from July 24, the paper said she wrote: “Better make sure you’re on top when sleeping with a black guy. … Otherwise it’s probably rape.”

Ginger’s Thoughts – Have you looked in the mirror Krissi “I am loud, obnoxious, and ignorant” Biasiello. It would not hurt your big ass to run, or bounce around the court a couple of times with those Niggas that you tweeted about disrespectfully. Furthermore; what decent looking Black guy would want you on top of them? You’re the type that they hit from the back. I hope your ass gets kicked off soon so that you can crawl back into that medium matchbox apartment you came out of!

Jesse Jackson, the Second Tom to eat Sam-bo Sandwiches at Paula Deen’s Restaurant


While doing some research prior to answering a comment on my post regarding how racist and narrow-minded I am, I came upon this information;

Deen conveyed that she sees herself as the victim in this controversy, describing herself as “heartbroken.”

“I’ve had to hold friends in my arms while they’ve sobbed because they know what’s being said about me is not true,” she cried. “And I’m having to comfort them and tell them it’s gonna be alright, if God got us to it, he’ll get us through it,” adding that she’s received “wonderful support from Reverend [Jesse] Jackson.”

I have attached the link for whomever to read the entire article.

It’s official, Jesse Jackson is now sitting in the “negro” section of Paula Deen’s restaurant with Al Sharpton. Al is welcoming Jesse with a Don Juan type conversation because he can’t help being an undercover pimp, and Jesse smiles at Don, I mean Al, and sits in the chair offered to him. He replies to Don, I mean Al, by rhyming phrases like Lil Wayne after he signed Paris Hilton because Paula has just signed his ass. They call the young Black man wearing the white suit with the black bow tie in unison, and they ask the “boy,” I mean waiter, to bring them the best sandwich in the restaurant; the Sam-bo sandwich.

Paula and Bubba watch them from afar smiling. Paula looks at her brothers and says, “See Bubba, there’s still some left!”

Ginger’s Thought’s – Well Jesse, we know your son used allocated funds to buy Ashley furniture and fur coats, so are you “selling out” to get white investigators off of your back? Is this action a display of “Keeping Hope Alive?” If it is….then my hope is DEAD!

“Grandma, I bet he won’t mention this Saturday morning…Rainbow Coalition.”

Get To Know The Cast Of Oxygen’s Preachers Of L.A.

Ginger’s Thoughts – I guess The Word Network was not enough. Meet the Reality Stars for God…..


pastor wayne chaneyOxygen has teamed up with Lemuel Plummer, the creator and executive producer of “Vindicated” and producer of “The Sheards,” and Holly Carter, creator and executive producer of “106 & Gospel” and executive producer of “The Sheards,” for the network’s latest series greenlight,“Preachers of L.A.” (working title), an authentic new docu-series set to premiere in the fall of 2013. “Preachers of L.A.” will give viewers a candid and revealing look at six boldly different and world renowned mega-pastors in Southern California, who are willing to share diverse aspects of their lives, from their work in the community and with their parishioners to the very large and sometimes provocative lives they lead away from the pulpit.

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“’Preachers of L.A.’ documents these larger than life characters who are rock stars in their communities, with a fresh,unique perspective that will resonate with our young…

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